Love Stuff

People say that love should be easy, people say they cannot control love, people say that committed loving relationships are hard. I'm confused. Is love easy or hard? Is it something I can be level- headed about or is that impossible?

Does one love someone for who the other person is or for how that person makes them feel? Specifically, do I love others because of the way they make me feel? Is that wrong? It's all silly and stupid but sometimes I think I am really a loser for allowing anyone to love me. I am a faker. I fake it. That cannot be good.

I am being vague. Someday I will live the kind of life that does not require vagueness. I think that day is coming soon.

First Post

Fresh linen, the smell my candle has been given, is a nice smell. I think it would be more accurate if it were called fabric softener. Let's face it, if you pull clothes out of a washer/dryer and there has been no perfume used in the washing/drying process you will most likely end up with clothes that smell a bit like BO. Right?